Do You Want to Have Better Sex? Indulge in your Sexual Fantasies

Do You Want to Have Better Sex? Indulge in your Sexual Fantasies

Have you ever heard that what is going on between your ears is just as important as what is going on between your legs? When it comes to sex, that may very well be true. Whether you share your sexual fantasies with your partner or keep it to yourself, what is going on in your head before and during sex can impact your pleasure in a big way.

Women especially, like the build up to sex. Often they might not want to share their fantasy with their partner for various reasons. Maybe they feel a little embarrassed to say it out loud or maybe they think it is a little perverted. There are very few fantasies that are outside the realm of ‘normal’. After all, they are just fantasies. It doesn’t mean we would want them to happen in real life. Common women’s fantasies that they might not feel comfortable sharing are things like being spanked, having sex with another woman (even though they are heterosexual), or being forced to have sex.

Men, on the other hand, may feel a bit squeamish about telling their partner that they fantasize about a threesome or wonder what it would be like to see their partner having sex with another woman while he watched.

If a couple wants to enjoy their fantasies privately, in their minds, then that is fine. However, if they are getting up the nerve to suggest something that they might like, it is often easier if they start with one that seems a little more ‘tame’. For example, once a man is successful in relaying to his partner that he would like her to take the lead and ‘be in charge’ (another men’s fantasy) she might be more receptive if later he suggests anal sex.

Whether you decide to fantasize in your mind or do an all out role play, fantasies can add another layer of blush worthy excitement to your ‘getting naked’ time!

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