5 Ways to Release Your Inner Dominatrix

Releasing Your Inner Dominatrix

Every marriage or co-habitational relationship can use some “maintenance” from time to time, and there is nothing wrong in admitting as much. If you’re a take-charge lady and are ready to spice up what has become somewhat ordinary by way of “due benevolence” in the bedroom, then here are five super-simple-but-insatiably-sexy tips on how to awaken the sleeping spirit of your inner dominatrix. They involve…

#1. Putting His Scarves or Ties to Work for You!

When it comes time for a quickie, go for a scarf or tie. After he is completely stripped down, bind him to the bedpost, a chair, or a large appliance. A belt also works great as a makeshift doctor’s medical restraint, but there are always stockings and panty hose to play with, too.

#2. Not Allowing Noise! 

Just prior to jumping into action, make it clear in no uncertain terms that your man is not allowed to make any noise whatsoever. No verbal “oh baby!” expressions, no groans, nothing more than heavy breathing. This can be a massive turn-on, especially when you’re servicing him at max stimulation and he can’t cry out in erotic pleasure. Consider stuffing your panties in his mouth as a gag (but make sure he doesn’t choke!)

#3. Getting dirty (and then clean)!

Wait until he is halfway through his morning shower and then jump in with him. Happen to have a set of handcuffs? Cuff him to the shower head and lather up with him and get rough. And no need to be afraid of a mess afterwards!

#4. Employing command restraints!

Does your man know the rules at a strip club? Well, the same rules can apply at home. Make him hold the arms of a chair while you straddle him, but he can’t let go. Drive him mad by exploring his body while he is forbidden to so much as touch yours.

#5. Being a Busy Mistress!

Are you watching TV? Have him go down on you, or make him into human furniture. Get him naked and have him support your legs as you get to glance down and occasionally notice his facial expressions while you read a book. This is excellent “downtime” (pun intended).

With role reversals being the wicked-powerful tools in the bedroom that they are, is there any reason not to put him to work for your pleasure?

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