Threesome, Submission Fantasies Normal

The good news, most fantasies, including ones involving multiple partners and the use of restraints, are perfectly normal, according to a study performed by the researchers at the Institut universitaire en santé mentale de Montréal and Institut Philippe-Pinel de Montréal.

In an attempt to garner information of exactly what types of fantasies were “normal” or “abnormal”, the scientist provided 799 men and 718 women with questionnaires asking them to describe their sexual fantasies. They were then asked to specify their favorite fantasy and describe it in greater detail. The average age for all respondents was 30 years old.

Surprising Results

They discovered that there were very few “abnormal” fantasies.  Fantasies labeled as non-typical were those that came up rarely in the questionnaires. Such fantasies included urination, cross-dressing, sex with prostitutes and abusing intoxicated women.

A Threesome Proves a Popular Fantasy

Typical fantasies included sex with multiple partners(a threesome was most popular), sex in a romantic location and receiving oral sex.

Male Fantasies Diverge Significantly from Female Fantasies

Typical male fantasy.Males tended to fantasize about having sex with two women and engaging in extramarital relationships.  Also, men had fantasies that were uniquely male, like anal sex with women, sex with transgenders and watching their partner have sex with other men. Men described their fantasies in greater detail and were more willing to engage in their fantasies.

Women, in comparison, fantasized more about their partner.  Also, a majority of women described fantasies that involved being tied up, spanked and being forced to have sex. However, unlike men, they are less likely to act out their fantasies in real life.

“Our main objective was to specify norms in sexual fantasies, an essential step in defining pathologies. And as we suspected, there are a lot more common fantasies than atypical fantasies,” said Christian Joyal, the lead researcher of the study.

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